|Pick a secret word or phrase. Tell the bride-to-be what the secret word is and that she should let you know when someone uses it in conversation with her. Let guests know that whoever is the first to use the secret word while talking with the bride-to-be is the winner.
An example of a good secret word is "nervous"; if someone asks the bride-to-be if she's nervous, that guest is the winner. You might want to try a different secret word because I have been to two bachelorette parties where the secret word was "nervous."